00457nam a22000977a 4500020001800000100001800018245004000036260003000076490000500106650024800111  a97809296089691 aSmalley, Gary00aThe Two Sides Of Lovec Trent, John  bFocus On The Familyc19900 a 4aWhat strengthens affection, closeness and lasting commitment?  A healthy balance between love's hard and soft sides.  Do you & your loved ones sometimes seem poles apart?  Do you long for greater affection in your most important relationships?